"In the great literature of all progressive societies, love is a verb. Reactive people make it a feeling. They'r driven by feelings. Hollywood has generally scripted us to believe that we are not responsible, that we are a product of our feelings. But the Hollywood script does not describe the reality. If our feelings control our actions, it is because we have abdicated our responsibility and empowered them to do so.
Proactive people make love a verb. Love is something you do: the sacrifices you make, the giving of self. If you want to study love, study those who sacrifice for others, even for people who offend or do not love in return. Love is a value that is actualized through loving actions. Proactive people subordinate feelings to values. Love, the feeling, can be created."
Thank You for sharing it with me. I understand what you mean. Whisk 'n' Bake Personal Nook 3/08/2004 12:37:00 AM
Sunday, March 07, 2004
A note for Denise Han,
Thanks, and a load more thanks for helping me out with this new pic (or part layout) i have now. haha. I have just discovered that I could actually do it myself, haha. But if it wasnt for your changes, i guess i would still be figuring it out. I'm talking to you on msn now and here I am writing a note for you. haha. Alright. Thanks once again. I really do appreciate it. Whisk 'n' Bake Personal Nook 3/07/2004 12:18:00 AM
